What the heck is this blog about anyway?

"What's your blog about?"

"Why are you writing a blog?"

"What's the point?"

Those questions have been asked of me since I first started blogging a few years ago. Those early blogs didn't make it for long, maybe 5-10 posts. I believe that was because I wasn't clear enough about what I wanted to say, how I wanted to say it and why it needed to be said.

At the time I didn't know that I should just keep blogging and those questions would work themselves out. I just wanted a bunch of content and to act as if I knew something valuable in my Black lesbian motherhood experience of the world that no one else knew and everyone else would want to know.

I was wrong.

Back then I was naive and often arrogant believing that I was the only BLNBM (black lesbian non-bio-mom) out there with my particular given circumstances. The labels, Black, lesbian, and Non-bio mom, really only h cccbbcnvcccxhch nbnbjjelped me to feel more victimized and to wallow longer in my own...'Pig'.

'Pig', a self indulgent state of self pity and ultimate lack of self importance and self love.

"Just Because I left..." is a Blog about becoming my best self. It is about sharing the journey as I work towards becoming a minister and healer. I am writing to become and to stay accountable. I believe, as a friend once shared, 'You're only as sick as your biggest secret.' I am seeking to being exceedingly well and accountable. I know that as a minister I intend to be trustworthy and forthcoming and for me it is continuing and starting here.

The point of this Blog:

To connect, engage, inspire, and entertain - united as a global family- frolicking in our humanity, spirituality, and ONENESS.